How can you look atractive. 8 Reasons Why You Look Unattractive & How You Can Fix That
There is a huge misconception around the terms ‘unattractive’ and ‘looks’. Honestly, there is a thin line between looking attractive and being attractive, but people often confuse the two. There can be men who are handsome yet look very shabby and unkempt. While there can be men who don’t look that good, but are exceptionally well-groomed and are pretty popular among women.
While you might hear people say “Don’t worry, just be yourself”, “Looks don’t matter” or “Just be confident”; nothing helps unless you really take the initiative. While some argue that looks shouldn’t be the deciding factor, but the reality is that it does matter and a little grooming doesn’t hurt anyone. Looking attractive does not mean you have to be a replica of your favourite actor with 6-pack abs. With a smart approach towards grooming, you can actually look good almost ALWAYS.
1. Identify Your Style And Look For The Best Options
Knowing your style is extremely important if you want to make a lasting impression on people. Ever wondered why, despite you being ‘well-dressed’, people aren’t acknowledging you and neither do you feel good about it? Blindly copying any trend doesn’t help; you need to identify which style suits your personality. You can check your style based on your hobbies, personality and especially the women you hang out with.
2. Wear Clothes That Fit You Well
Clothes and shoes are the primary things that people notice. We don’t expect you guys to have 6-pack abs to impress a woman. Even if you are over-weight, don’t wear tight shirts that make you look stout. On the other hand, if you are lean, then don’t go for loose shirts or T-shirts. They will make you look saggy. If at all you have to wear loose shirts, slightly tuck it inside for that bespoke look.
3. Trim Your Beard Regularly
Having a beard isn’t enough, maintaining it is the real deal. Trust us, caveman style beard can make even the sexiest guy look shabby and untidy. Make this a part of your morning routine to trim your beard either daily or on alternate days. Men who look fresh all the time appear highly attractive.
4. Invest In Good Hair Products
Guys sporting a disheveled look, once in a while, is fine. But if you look like this almost every other day, then you really need to invest in some good hair products. A well-styled hair can actually overshadow any flaw, if at all there is, in your looks. In fact, if you don’t have any gel or spray around, rub some lotion in your hands and gently apply it on your hair. Even talcum powder is great for greasy and frizzy air.
5. Shoes Can Work Wonders
Like we said earlier, shoes are the first thing that people notice. Wrong pair of shoes can ruin even the best outfit. However, you might argue that shoes are meant for comfort or that it’s difficult to find shoes that are both stylish and sturdy. While you can have innumerable pairs of sneakers and scandals, buy a pair of classic shoes that can be paired with almost everything you wear.
6. A Good Cologne Is All It Takes To Leave A Mark
You might not know, but women get attracted to men who smell good. By the time you reach your office, your deodorant gets evaporated and all you are left with is a mixed smell of your deo and sweat. Instead of spraying deodorants throughout the day, use perfume around your chest and biceps (fragrance lasts longer in those areas). Aftershaves too serve the purpose of both fragrance and skincare.
7. Accessorize Your Look Like A Pro
Just because your friend owns a reflector or a pair of funky glasses, it does not mean you too need to own the same. Glasses play a huge role in altering your style so try experimenting with different frames. Also heavy-dial watches or funky wrist-bands that are in trend might not be in sync with your taste. Buy accessories that suit your style or looks.
8. Look After Your Skin In Summer
Travelling in the scorching heat and that too without applying sunscreen can take its toll on your skin. Sometimes using a face wash isn’t enough to prevent your face from tanning, or getting blisters and zits. While you should follow a personalized skincare regime, if you can’t think of anything you can do this. Soak 3 to 4 tea bags in a bucket of hot water and allow it to cool down. Once the water is black and cool, dab it on your face. It actually soothes your burning skin.